How did you become the caregiver for your loved one?
I was 45 years old when my husband only 49 had 3 strokes that left him paralyzed from the neck down and on a ventilator. We left the hospital being told he would never walk again.
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Has your relationship changed with the loved one that you are caring for? If so how?
Our relationship has changed significantly. We were once just a couple, now we are a couple and best friends living our new normal life. And, loving it.
What is the hardest thing about being a caregiver and the most rewarding thing?
The hardest thing for me was when I discovered our identities had been stolen. Our memories of the past were exactly that, the past. The most rewarding... Discovering our new normal and realizing a life full of happiness could still be lived.
What advice would you give to other caregivers?
Let the past go and record the thoughts as sweet memories. Focus on the present, live each day one at a time, fully. And remember when you are tired and frustrated because life is hard that the rolls can be reverse at any given time.
In ten words or less, what has caregiving taught you?
To be present, to be patient and to persevere. Everyone has value.
Describe a situation where being a Fearless Caregiver helped you succeed?
The times I struggle most as a caregiver are the times I grow most. I have developed a different level of compassion for mankind. And have learned "love" is always the answer. My caregiver experience has given new meaning and gratitude to life lived.
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