CareVerses
A Halloween Ode to Caregiving
Sung to The Addams Family theme music They creep around your house, Ask questions of your spouse, All your plans up they will louse, Your Visiting Family. Read more
Oct 24, 2024
New Perspectives
Fat deposits Accumulated around the hips And sides of the waist Were defined as love handles Read more
Alzheimer’s Melody
When I ask you, you deny it And in an effort to refute, You blame that little Pixie Of such questionable repute. Read more
I Know You’re In There Somewhere
Yesterday you were quietly setting me right My friend and my lover, my wife and my light You were comfort and ease You were laughter and tease Read more
And I Lost You
Yesterday you were quietly setting me right My friend and my lover, my wife and my light You were comfort and ease You were laughter and tease Read more
The Alzheimer Fairy
When I ask you, you deny it And in an effort to refute, You blame that little Pixie Of such questionable repute. Read more
Losing Cognition
Married 27 years, I notice the need for notetaking. I need to write this down. What is happening to my husband? I watch his mind slip into thin air Read more
God Bless The Caregivers
God bless the ones who serve each day, Their loved ones to assist. They offer comfort and support, Just part of a long list. Read more
Youth Is Becoming
Youth runs fast; Age awaits its arrival Youth taunts, "catch me if you can"; Age does Read more
Dec 7, 2022
A Race To The Finish
I’ve entered a race I would have never chosen to be. I’m taking care of her who took care of me. The funeral was the easy, a skill I’ve learned and consider an art The nightmare began when I was left to console my mother’s broken heart. Family is Read more
Nov 17, 2022
Considerate Folks
We prefer not to make others wait Now that we're older with a slower gait No longer participants in the race Read more
Oct 20, 2022
My Father My Friend
My Father Left this World Today, On July 22nd, 1998. I held his hand as cancer took his last breath away. Through tear filled Eyes I had to pray. Read more
A Caregiver
My life of pulls and tugs Wanting to be everywhere at once and nowhere alone All at the same time. My Mom so old needs so much Read more
FADE TO NIGHT
Twilight moments replace CT’s and chemo. Beyond the anger, past the denial, we are now here. Enjoying this bridge to the unknown. Read more
A Last Game of Checkers
Father and Son are seated across each other at a bedside table in a dimly lit room at the Apple Valley Nursing Home. A checkerboard lies between them. Read more
An Anchor or a Sail
Let us hold hands as we let go “She was deciding whether she wanted an anchor or a sail.” It is the same choice my Patty would have liked examining so many years ago. But she wasn’t wise then. Read more
Mornings At My House
Day after day I sit looking out the window waiting……waiting…… for you to awaken Read more
The Spoon In My Purse
Poised in wheelchair fortress, Her hovering hands tremor, Seeking precise location For every stainless treasure - Read more
Caregivers Need Care Too
I am brought back to a memory so very long ago. You loved me and I loved you; that’s all we needed to know! Read more
Empathetic Sadness
You are my soulmate and we are one Your mind is changing and I feel glum My heart is wounded as is my soul I didn’t expect this while growing old! Read more