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How did you become the caregiver for your loved one?
My mother had a fall which compressed her spinal cord and left her as a paraplegic. After returning home from recovery time in the hospital, I was and still am the primary caregiver.
Has your relationship changed with the loved one that you are caring for? If so how?
Although our relationship was/is airtight prior to this incident, we’ve come to appreciate each other more and I’ve learned more about mother’s health than she would tell me. I now have a deeper respect for her mind and how she processes things.
What is the hardest thing about being a caregiver and the most rewarding thing?
The hardest thing about being a caregiver is the drama; however, not knowing how to help your loved one when he/she asks for it hurts. The most rewarding thing about being a caregiver is time spent with your loved one.
What advice would you give to other caregivers?
Please find some time for yourself. You’re no good to the person in your care if you don’t take care of yourself.
In ten words or less, what has caregiving taught you?
Pray without ceasing
Describe a situation where being a Fearless Caregiver helped you succeed?
Dealing with the family has brought more drama than mother deserves. Providing the 24 hour care has allowed me to see the family in a different light.
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