How did you become the caregiver for your loved one?
I started out with my dying mother, at age 16, as there was no one else to give care, and couldn't have afforded it in any case. All of my adult life after, I have cared for others.
Has your relationship changed with the loved one that you are caring for? If so how?
My relationships with my clients are constantly evolving, with the increasing needs as time passes, and our adjustments to them.
What is the hardest thing about being a caregiver and the most rewarding thing?
The hardest thing is my stature, which limits how much physical assistance I can give in lifting and transferring. The most rewarding thing is in how much my clients come to love me, and are very attached; these feelings are mutual on both sides.
What advice would you give to other caregivers?
Do not think that your efforts are useless or not appreciated. You can find self-satisfaction in knowing that you are making a positive difference in someone's life, at a difficult time.
In ten words or less, what has caregiving taught you?
More patience, empathy, love; it made me more outgoing, and less shy.
Describe a situation where being a Fearless Caregiver helped you succeed?
I started out with childcare. By word of mouth, this broadened into a much bigger scope. I'm in high demand now, and often bring in other trusted caregivers that I have worked with, to fill in on shifts or give needed time off.
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