Fearless Caregiver Profile: DUOSHUN PLEDGURE

How did you become the caregiver for your loved one?

My grandmother in-law was recently diagnosed with dementia. She lives by herself, the dementia has proven to be aggressive and because of this needed additional care for the weekends. This led me to sign up to be a part-time home care worker.

Has your relationship changed with the loved one that you are caring for? If so how?

My relationship with my grandmother in-law has grown in ways I never imagined. I lost my biological grandmother a few years ago so she is the only grandparent I have left. Being with her on the weekends is time I cherish

What is the hardest thing about being a caregiver and the most rewarding thing?

The hardest thing about being a caregiver is the emotional investment. It is difficult to watch someone you love struggle with a condition they can't control. But the most rewarding thing is getting to be a part of their life in a special way.

What advice would you give to other caregivers?

I would encourage them to know your limits. Take the time to self-evaluate. Know what capacity you have to give. And take care of yourself well, so you can take care of the person you are caring for well.

In ten words or less, what has caregiving taught you?

Caregiving has taught me the meaning of sacrifice and compassion.

Describe a situation where being a Fearless Caregiver helped you succeed?

When you provide care for a loved one with dementia, every day you arrive is a day where you must be fearless. Dementia is a disease that impacts memory, reason, etc. So every day you need courage to see beyond that and care patiently and compassionately.

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