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I am thankful for
those who help
with my caregiving…
And optimistic about the rest
What are you thankful for?
Shared by: Sherrill
I'm so thankful for all the people who help and support this fam.with my husband mas time goes on he will need double.until then I appreciate everything.
Shared by: Miriam
I am thankful for the many resources that are available to me.From support groups,clinical trials, conferences, podcasts, webinars and books! Who knew? It helps to be as informed as possible
Shared by: Deanna
I am thankful that my 96 year old mother left with the Angels on Monday, September 7, 2015. She lived in a worldly body ravaged by Alzheimer's after she stopped speaking, eating, an drinking except for the morphine to ease the pain each time she was touched. I'm thankful that she's with my father, her siblings, and parents that all went before her. I'm thankful she's now in a heavenly body and state of mind. R. I. P. Mommy.
Shared by: Maggie
I have been the sole caregiver for my mother and brother for the past ten years plus and today is my birthday. I am 58 and I wasn't asked ,"What do you want for your birthday?" If I had been asked , maybe I would say something like this: Probably not what you would think and definitely not what any normal person would ask for but I would like to go the entire day, the full twenty four hours and not have to cook , fetch, tote or carry anything for anybody. I do not want to have to touch or smell anybody else's urine or feces in any way. I do not want to have to cook any food, not even make a sandwich. I do not want to have to treat any wounds or see anybody else's body parts at all. I do not want to hear a phone or buzzer ring to summon me. I want to sleep until I decide to get up and not when somebody else wants me to or needs something. I want to go to sleep when I am tired or just because I want a nap. I want to pick up my crochet hook and not put it down until I am tired of crocheting. I want to read a book, listen to my music, go out if I want on a moments notice without asking or telling anyone. I want to shop without hearing my cell phone ring and go to all the stores I want and look at anything I want and go home when I decide to, not when I have to . I want to drive and drive, only stopping if I choose too, not when I have reached the end of my chain or my time limit. I want to drive over the city line, county line, state line and maybe several state lines. I want to drive all night if I decide to, just because I am a free woman of legal age and it is my right to do so . I want to soak in the bath tub for hours until my fingertips are all wrinkly and I feel so very clean and the stench of sickness is washed away. I want to wear pretty clothes that may not be soil resistant and not have to worry about them getting ruined by blood, urine or feces. I want to watch the sun rise, watch it set and lie on my back looking at the night stars for as long as I feel is necessary to maintain my sanity. I want to drive to the ocean , just to stand and stare at it for hours on end. I want quiet , peace and no responsibility , even if it is only for a short time. I want to own my life and my person again for just a little while. God, I need a vacation. It's been over ten years now, have I earned one yet?
Shared by: Janet
I am thankful that I am privileged to care for my husband of 54 years as he begins a new journey needing more of my help every day. It is a joy to be the one to care for him. This journey has made me a better person as I have replaced frustration with compassion, negativity with positivity, and am enjoying the wonderful moments we can still have together. It's not easy but with the right attitude and deep faith, it works.
Shared by: Janet
I am thankful that God has said He will never leave me or forsake me.....I am not alone on this last journey with my earthly dad and with all the care that is needed. My heavenly Father never changes or grows old. When all will have been said and done, despite the daily struggles, it will have been a blessing to have been chosen to care for him and have him living with us....till the end of his earthy life.
Shared by: Donna
I am thankful that I was able to care for my father during his final year of life and take care of the man who spent his life wanting nothing but the best for all his children.
Shared by: B. Bernadette
I am thankful that God has given me the patience, understanding and perserverance to withstand the challenges of caring for and planning for the care of my husband, a stroke and brain injury survivor and my 94 year old mother. The lessons on this journey are ones that are timeless.
Shared by: Pat
Every day is different. I take one
day at a time and go with the flow. I have learned
to be flexible.
Shared by: Carolee
I am thankful that the person
that I interviewed today to caregive my son admitted
to me that they lived far away, and may have a problem
with lateness, when I said I need to get to my doctor's
appointments on time, and therefore need you to be on
time. We both agreed that she would not work out.
Shared by: Ron
Delray Beach, FL
I am thankful that my Daughter
has accepted that her 8 y/o son will be OK after
she her stage IV journey is over.
Shared by: Ronald
Fort Lauderdale, FL
THANKSGIVING 2014 IS MY
FIRST THANKSGIVING WITHOUT
PRESENCE OF ONE, OR BOTH, OF MY PARENTS—
ARTHUR (1927-1988) & CLEMONTEESE L. FOULKES
All for which I am
That ELOHIM/GOD sent me to Earth through
Arthur and Clemonteese Foulkes, my parents,
in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
That Arthur and Clemonteese chose to wait
four years after their marriage to bring me
into this world, assuring me that I was
planned for and wanted; and, because I was
their first and only, that they had given me
back to Elohim/God as their first fruits
gift to Him.
That Arthur and Clemonteese, though
divorced in my 6th year (1962) continued to
love one another and me, to remain friends,
AND to be my parents, and taught me to
value, to embrace, and to love BOTH SIDES of
my family—The Lawsons/Haygoods and the
That not only were/are Arthur and
Clemonteese my Father and Mother, but they
are, and will forever remain my FIRST
teachers, my FIRST mentors, my FIRST
confidant[e]s, my FIRST friends.
That Arthur and Clemonteese gave me ALL
that I needed – the greatest of which was
Love: The Love of Elohim/God, of
Yeshua/Jesus, of Myself, of my Family, and
of ALL Others – But, they did NOT give me
all that I wanted, or thought I wanted. So,
I was NOT THEN—NOR AM I, TODAY—
SPOILED; indeed, I was, and remain, and will
always be, BLESSED.
That Arthur and Clemonteese encouraged me
to think, to explore, and to follow, for
myself, the ELOHIM/God and Holy Spirit
within, and to know, to appreciate, the
world around me through living, research and
work in over 85 nations on 5 continents
That Arthur and Clemonteese gave me deep,
meaningful insights into, appreciation and
respect for, and understanding of, the
unseen, omnipresent, omnificent, omnipotent,
omniscient supernatural world through which
we are traveling , knowing and seeing, and
how to tap into that supernatural realm to
meet all of my needs, and the needs of
That both Arthur and Clemonteese had, on
the whole, top-notch, first-rate, caring,
health and medical providers through a host
of physicians, surgeons, radiologists,
oncologists, pulmonologists, nurses,
pharmacists, podiatrists, nutritionists,
x-ray technicians, physical therapists,
speech therapists, ophthalmologists,
cardiologists, nephrologists, neurologists,
endocrinologists, infectious disease
specialists, wound care specialists, an
array of other medical specialists, nurses,
pharmacists, insurers, etc. Especially those
affiliated with and through Humana,
Continucare, Plantation General Hospital,
West Side Regional Hospital, Florida Medical
Center, and several Skilled Nursing
Facilities throughout Broward County.
That both Arthur and Clemonteese chose to
leave me / return to Heaven minutes BEFORE I
was to return to their respective hospital
rooms at Plantation’s Humana Bennett (today,
Westside Regional) Hospital, on 18th May
1988, and at Fort Lauderdale’s Kindred
Hospital on 6th October 2014. And, that I
had my dad for all 32 years of my life; and,
my mom, for 58.
Shared by: Ken Takeya
I am thankful for having the ability as a
caregiver for my wife to work with and counsel other caregivers
on how to proceed with their long journey as caregivers. We tell
them to never give up and to find other caregivers to help.
Shared by: Joy Archer
I am Thankful that I am safe and my husband
is safe. He is in the Nursing Home. He still loves me and knows
me but is declining fast. He has Alzheimer/Dementia