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 Respite Wisdom 2010

Ten years ago, I interviewed Dana Reeve for a Today’s Caregiver magazine cover interview. Dana, unfortunately, passed a few years later; but at the time of the interview, she was caring for her husband, Christopher Reeve, who became a quadriplegic after being thrown from his horse in 1995.  She was open, gracious, and actually quite prophetic during our hour-long interview. I have referred to what she told me many times over the past decade. One of her comments came to mind when I received the email from Peggy below, and that was Dana’s concept of learning to take “mental bubble-baths.” In other words, getting away for respite breaks does not necessarily mean having to go anywhere; respite can and should be woven into your daily schedule.
 
I do many little things, or try to see the little things as respite opportunities.  Walking our dogs, even though most times a chore, can be relaxing; especially when walking along the creek by our house, smelling the flowers, and listening to the water run.  Through the Internet, I connect with many friends (from the past and present) via Facebook, write a blog about our lives, read articles from online magazines (posting the ones that touch me most) and am encouraged by Bible verses posted by others. I crochet on the front porch or back deck while watching our dogs outside, read magazines, and do crosswords while watching the 'up to the minute' news stories. We even have a doggy-sitter come once a week so Gary and I can have a date night together away from home. Even though Gary is the one I take care of, it’s nice to get away from the home-filled tasks. Some days, I even try to view my job as a break away from caregiving. I deal blackjack at a casino and can talk to my players while dealing cards. When I have fun players, it is very enjoyable and relaxing.  You get the idea.
 
Peggy, we certainly do get the idea and appreciate you sharing your respite wisdom.
 
 
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Gary Barg
Editor-in-Chief

gary@caregiver.com