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This Week's Carenote - 07/17/12

I've been in love with someone living with bipolar disorder or manic depression for four years. Dealing with the mood swings isn't one of my strong points, but I do my best to keep her positive on her downs and out of trouble on her highs.

She has begun to accept the disorder and we're managing, I guess. But at times, she becomes cold and distant and often tries to push me away because she doesn't want me to be hurt, no matter how much I tell her I'm not going anywhere. Truth be told, it does bring me down, but I just keep reminding myself to be strong for her. If I'm not, who'll be there for her when she drops again? I wish I could find a way to get her to understand how much I care; but at this point, I haven't found it.

After all this, I just want to remind others not to lose hope. Through the weeks in rehab and clinics, through the fighting and reckless behaviour, keep hope. At the end of the day, a moment with her balanced is worth a life time of ups and downs.

Any advice, please.

Vincent

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