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June 12, 2014
Issue #722
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From the Editor's Pen Gary Barg • Editor-in-Chief • gary@caregiver.com

Gary Barg

A Loving Ode to Sneaky Wisdom

As we travel the nation talking with our fellow family caregivers, our hope is to help bring the best answers, support and advice to light. We talk about such things as the importance of being able to communicate with our loved ones for whom we care. This is extremely important as we all work so very hard to ensure they eat well, stop driving (if necessary), and even take their medicines as directed.

This effort takes diligence, fortitude and, most of all, quite a bit of sneakiness. You heard me. In this case, you have my full permission to extend your usual decent and truthful personality to include a bit of, as we say in the old country, blarney and maybe even a little white lie or two. All in the service of the greater good. In some cases, this is the only way you will be able to do all you can do to keep your loved one safe and secure.

To further extoll the virtue of loving sneakiness as you care for your loved ones, I offer the following suggestions that we have heard from family caregivers over the years. Don’t worry, you will have a chance to add your own successful little white lies to the list at the end of this article  ...more

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Sharing Wisdom

From Dee:  
Caregivers should keep a file on a computer for the person they care for so they can update, print out, email or fax information whenever needed.  This is especially vital when there is a health emergency. 

  • List all medications including:  name of medication, strength (mg.), dosage and how many times a day, before, with or after meals); name of physician and their contact info (phone and fax); reason for medication (memory, kidneys, heart, etc.).

  • Keep copy of this list on refrigerator so anyone can access it in case of emergency.

  • Keep separate lists:  health related incidents (falls, surgery, hospitalizations, memory issues, etc.), doctor appointments and visits.

  • If dealing with a senior who resides at home, have a "lock box" to ensure that emergency personnel can enter rapidly if no one is around with a key.

The best ideas and solutions for taking care of your loved one often come from other caregivers. Please post your ideas and insights and we will share them with your fellow caregivers.  

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